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<title>Relationship... (no replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/2/23/23/_subject_#msg-23</link><description><![CDATA[ Altho I have years ahead to even be middle aged, I frequent to meet some elderly having lost their spouse and they discover that while they thought they were prepared and could be alone, they soon discovered also that companionship is a necessary factor of their lives always...<br /><br />Does anyone wish to express their needs for or not for companionship during their elder years when finding themselves alone...?<br /><br />Sandra...]]></description>
<dc:creator>Sandra</dc:creator>
<category>Coffee Break </category><pubDate>Sat, 03 Apr 2010 06:16:27 -0500</pubDate></item>
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<title>Reverse mortgages...? (no replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/2/22/22/_subject_#msg-22</link><description><![CDATA[ Well, we hear it often enough, but is a reverse mortage good for everyone...?<br /><br />No, not for everyone. The idea of not making mortgage payments and staying in your home until you die is great, but, for one thing, a reverse mortgage won't pay for full time care in your home should you need it...<br /><br />Let's indicate someone is to live another ten years and now pays a mortgage of $300.00 a month, $3,600.00 a year and $36,000.00 for ten years. This person has a home value of $150,000.00 with an equity invested at 50% (75,000.00). Getting a reverse mortgage would be no problem here but dying in ten years would be outright robbery for the financier...<br /><br />It would seem best to borrow against the equity, put that money in an interest bearing account and then have the mortgage payments, taxes and insurance withdrawn automatically... The estate at death will still have an equity of $39,000.00 ($75,000.00 less $36,000.00) from year one and gain back more each following year. The only difference will be having to pay the interest against the equity loan less the interest earned from the loan being in an interest bearing account...<br /><br />Now, this is just an example, and does not apply to everyone. It's simply a classic example to provide reason to seek advice from more than one person...<br /><br />Meanwhile, from all I have read, indications are that no company wants to give a reverse mortgage beyond 40% of a property value unless the equity is much higher...<br /><br />Is it complicated...? Yes, and lenders are inconsistant. My suggestion is that if anyone is considering a reverse mortgage that they speak to their bank financial officer and also seek further information and financial terms from a financial retirement specialist...<br /><br />Sandra...]]></description>
<dc:creator>Sandra</dc:creator>
<category>Coffee Break </category><pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 21:39:21 -0500</pubDate></item>
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<title>Hello (no replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/2/18/18/_subject_#msg-18</link><description><![CDATA[ <b><span style="color:#990033">Just want to say Hello to the group. Look forward to hearing from you or joining you for chat.<span style="font-size:medium"></span></span></b>]]></description>
<dc:creator>denimjeans</dc:creator>
<category>Coffee Break </category><pubDate>Sun, 28 Mar 2010 16:38:20 -0500</pubDate></item>
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<title>Hello (2 replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/2/13/13/_subject_#msg-13</link><description><![CDATA[ I wish you well with the setting up of your new forum, and with the commitment that you are showing I am in no doubt that it will be a great success!.:)]]></description>
<dc:creator>Chantelle</dc:creator>
<category>Coffee Break </category><pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 21:12:23 -0500</pubDate></item>
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<title>Medicare and Doctors (2 replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/2/12/12/_subject_#msg-12</link><description><![CDATA[ I have a friend who works in a very well known medical center, and I did't believe it when she said a lot of doctors may stop accepting Medicare because of the pay structure.<br /><br />But now I saw a spot on the news about the same subject. What's going on here? Do we need to worry that by the time we get to Medicare age (if not there yet), it will be almost useless. This is scary.]]></description>
<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
<category>Coffee Break </category><pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 20:50:02 -0500</pubDate></item>
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<title>Retirement Planning Panic (no replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/7/10/10/_subject_#msg-10</link><description><![CDATA[ OK, so who else is in a panic about retrement planning? I'm 50+, had some setbacks, and am way behind what any rational planner would suggest.<br /><br />Do I just accept an impoverished old age? Should I try to marry well? &lt;JK&gt;<br /><br />Any tips on catching up after 50?]]></description>
<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
<category>Retirement and Finance</category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 09:19:50 -0600</pubDate></item>
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<title>Too Old For Crushes (no replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/8/9/9/_subject_#msg-9</link><description><![CDATA[ Well, I'm a guy, but I'm going to post this anyway? How old is too old for crushes? Is it 14, 24, 54? Do we ever outgrow this, or am I just as emotionally backwards as my ex claimed?<br /><br />My darling, the relationship goddess, posted about <a href="http://www.datinggoddess.com/midlife-crushes/" rel="nofollow" >midlife crushes</a> here.<br /><br />I know the boardboss mentioned the <a href="http://www.over50web.net/personal-growth/dating-relationships/the-over-40-dating-goddess-talks-about-relationship-recovery/" rel="nofollow" >relationship goddess</a> on her relationship recovery post, but I'm not sure we've covered this topic.]]></description>
<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
<category>Relationships Over 50 </category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 09:17:45 -0600</pubDate></item>
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<title>Does Soy Milk Help Us Lose Weight? (no replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/5/8/8/_subject_#msg-8</link><description><![CDATA[ I've been drinking a product called &quot;Slender Soy&quot; the last week. It is soy milk that you find in the health food section of your grocery store. It comes in vanilla and chocolate, and has no added sugar. I like the vanilla. The chocolate is great!<br /><br />I think it is really helping me lose with by making me feel fuller. I haven't been able to find any facts on this, but I wonder if anybody else has used this as part of their diet strategy.<br /><br />It is sort of expensive, compared to regular milk, but no completely out of line. At my store, a 2 ounce carton is about 2.99.]]></description>
<dc:creator>Dawn</dc:creator>
<category>Over 50 Health and Fitness</category><pubDate>Fri, 12 Mar 2010 08:41:12 -0600</pubDate></item>
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<title>Thinning Hair and Chemicals (2 replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/6/6/6/_subject_#msg-6</link><description><![CDATA[ I notice that my hair is a lot thinner after menopause. Do you guys think this is part of the natural cycle of aging? Can something be done?<br /><br />Also, do you think that chemicals in shampoo and conditioners can actually aggravate this?<br /><br />i.e. .... <a href="http://houstonsalonnaturals.com/natural-health/sulfate-hair-loss-and-sulfate-free-shampoo/" rel="nofollow" >Sulfate and Hair Loss</a><br /><br />I know I'm asking a lot of questions, but have any people had success with products to slow down or stop hair thinning?]]></description>
<dc:creator>MariC</dc:creator>
<category>Beauty Over 50 </category><pubDate>Tue, 23 Mar 2010 15:35:14 -0500</pubDate></item>
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<title>This time for sure..... (4 replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/2/4/4/_subject_#msg-4</link><description><![CDATA[ OK, I know I said that a few weeks ago. Boardboss, let's home you stay satisfied with this forum script because I really want this community to work for us!<br /><br />Anyway, I know you've been working very hard. :)-D So, I'll say it again. This time for sure!]]></description>
<dc:creator>David</dc:creator>
<category>Coffee Break </category><pubDate>Fri, 02 Apr 2010 21:00:17 -0500</pubDate></item>
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<title>Welcome Aboard (no replies)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/2/3/3/_subject_#msg-3</link><description><![CDATA[ Welcome aboard. This is a very simple forum. We have installed it to continue discussions on Over50Web.net, and also to start new discussions.<br /><br />Make sure you check the announcements once in awhile. Especially look at the rules. They are simple, but they are important.]]></description>
<dc:creator>BoardBoss</dc:creator>
<category>Coffee Break </category><pubDate>Wed, 10 Mar 2010 08:03:10 -0600</pubDate></item>
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<title>Welcome to BoomBaby.org - The Over 50 Friendly Chat (1 reply)</title><link>http://boombaby.org/over50chat/1/2/2/_subject_#msg-2</link><description><![CDATA[ Pleae read this so we can all just get along. Our goal is to make this a friendly over 50 community forum. We are associated with the <a href="http://over50web.net" rel="nofollow" >Over 50 Website</a>, so you are welcome to post about topics you find there too.<br /><br /><b>RULES</b><br /><br />1. <b>Keep it friendly</b>. This meas we do not tolerate any hate speech, obscene content, etc. We do believe in freedom of speech, but we also believe we have the right to control this forum.<br /><br />2. <b>Do not get overly promotional</b>. If you are a participating member, we will let you drop a link in a post if it is in the context of the topic. You are also allowed to use your signature line to promote your own website (if it follows rule 1). Again, the admins of this forum get to decide where to draw the line.]]></description>
<dc:creator>BoardBoss</dc:creator>
<category>Announcements</category><pubDate>Sun, 04 Apr 2010 04:16:11 -0500</pubDate></item>
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